03-31-2016, 03:56 PM
(03-31-2016, 03:38 PM)Emmie Wrote: I obviously don't know how you approach it when telling people to leave. But I hope you ask in the politest way you can think of. Cause you have no right to demand it, and you clearly know it, I don't see a problem if you politely ask people to leave, and if they decline, accept that they are well within their rights. Now, you can't blame lack of cash, cause that's not anyone else's problem but your own. So either you get a room for the privacy, or you accept that some might watch.
Now, I think it also depends a lot. If people are there before you get there, and they complain about your roleplay, you are in the wrong. If you are there first doing rp and they come to complain, they are in the wrong. If you're there doing your thing and they come, they should either leave or let you do your thing. Cause you did get there first. I still don't believe that first comers can tell people to leave, but I also don't think newcomers should bitch about the contents of the chat.
If I come to an area and I don't like what's going on, I move on to another place. But if someone told me to leave, I would probably talk back. A public area is public, and I wouldn't let some stranger tell me where I can or can't be. ^_^
Also, not taking sides, just saying how I view it. Not judging anyone.
Thanks for your opinion first of all and I do understand it. I was polite and didn't get mad at first but when that person wouldn't leave and basically ruined our thing... I got a little upset indeed ^^
In the case of the poledancing, we were there first, and no one was really there outside of friends that knew about it. He came in out of nowhere when we were like 15mns in and "bitched" about that. We just said "It's a private show, please leave..." (Which is to me, not rude, I'm sorry if it is but I don't know what to say then) and the guy just stayed and said it was a public place and that he had the right to stay, hence ruining our fun.
Outside of the "You bothered us" aspect, he also didn't make a effort to understand the situation.. And that was the case lots of times...
But I do understand that
Thank you Tavana for sharing your opinion too. I do agree with you when you say that when they are invited, they are not even trying to be nice or anything... Personal experience speaking here u_u