(03-31-2016, 02:59 PM)Oh_my Wrote: Hello everyone 
I've been on this game since the Beta of it (even though I joined the forums very late 
) and I would like to express my opinion on a matter that's been bothering me for a while... It wasn't that much of a thing but I feel like lately, it's been.
As some of you may know, I'm generally hanging out on the smaller servers because I feel it's better to have some "niches" to talk with friends and have fun 
And until now it was pretty nice~ The people there were nice and everything was cool. Sadly, when it comes to having "personal" moments with someone, it can get quite awful. Let me explain
More than once, and since I'm quite shy overall, I stayed with people I liked and generally stood with them in smaller servers. However, nowadays, people feel the urge of breaking into our privacy and are generally rude saying that we should get a room or even worse, just leaving the game and never come back (A prime example is the poledancing and the "private" shows). I do understand that and I do know that we could just buy a room for that. However, when no one has money and when everything goes well, we are in a right to think that we can have "private" shows. But this applies to all kind of private moments.
I do understand the idea behind the "get a room" constant remark. However, it is a MMO and a social game and people can enjoy some private time sometimes. That's why I think that when someone comes to us when we do something like that and say that he has the right to do so... I agree. To an extent being when it's bothering us. We aren't on the smaller servers for no reason after all and we're not being rude by just saying "Please leave it's a private show" to someone. So please, if someone is telling you that you bother them, please accept it and move on, because it is a social game before everything else and people can be embarassed or can actually feel bad by you arguing with them and it could lead to stupid provocations. There's no need to get mad and alert the whole MnF planet Just move on and let them be. They are in the wrong by doing it outside but you are in the wrong for invading their privacy and bothering them after they told you so. They are human after all.
If you managed to read until here, well congratz 
And thank you for reading, feel free to share your opinion on this as I feel this is quite a matter on this game. I hope I offended no one and broke no rules or anything. Bye
Well by saying "Please leave it's a private show" is a bit out of your league since it's a public place. And when they say get a room it meant that you are doing something called PDA(public display of affection) which would gross out certain people. But when it goes out of hand its usually both sides are in the wrong because you did something that could have made people annoyed and he did'tn just stay calm and do something else. So its kinda both your fault. I hope I didn't offend anyone in this reply
