Frustrations

[Vally]

During this past month I have to say I have not been myself, dealing with problems in my life and I have to say that at times I let those get the better of me, I am sorry and I do apologise to all that I might have offended. It was not my intention and by being in the game, having so many users in my Friends list but none of them, well... just a handful, really talked to me. I did decide to clean that list and removed most of the people in there based on how often we have spoken, I have to say that the reactions I got were something I did not anticipate, I was placed on Ignore by some and that being the "nicest" thing that happened. I will not go into details as this is not a means to shift blame on others.
What I want to say in the end is that I am sorry and hope that I will not act this way again, also I do believe that some people did had me in their lists just to ask about the game even when they have this wonderful community in here.

[IvanXLIV]

When it comes to friends, Vally, quality is indeed much more important than quantity.

As for the game, you have every right to enjoy it like the rest of us - without being pestered with questions and requests for help all the time... did you consider my suggestion (i.e., playing under a different alias)? Not a perfect solution, granted, but a long as one is otherwise honest and truthful with others, it shouldn't be problematic.

Cheers, Ivan

[Vally]

(02-23-2016, 12:19 PM)IvanXLIV Wrote: When it comes to friends, Vally, quality is indeed much more important than quantity.

As for the game, you have every right to enjoy it like the rest of us - without being pestered with questions and requests for help all the time... did you consider my suggestion (i.e., playing under a different alias)? Not a perfect solution, granted, but a long as one is otherwise honest and truthful with others, it shouldn't be problematic.

Cheers, Ivan

But those friends that I hurt and got ignored by were the ones that had the quality, sir. I guess more to others than with me.
I do enjoy the game, on occasions, chatting in the main chat with the ones that join the Alley in the evenings ... as for other parts of the game, I have to say that even with another name, I still am myself and act accordingly, I am not good at starting a conversation and after the usual questions "how are you?, what have you been up to?" I have nothing else to add... so it all dies there. So I  guess there is no solution for the full enjoyment of the game, not for me.

[Simple Tania]

Vally...*hugs and kisses* I'm with you, always...

[V3ol]

Vally, you're human, after all

[Bansai]

No worries sire, though you're not in my list yet you're still a valuable friend to me

[Emmie]

Well, I don't see why people gotta bitch. I got removed from your list as well, which was completely understandable, we didn't really spreak through PMs like ever. Why would I have a fit over being removed then? ^^ I admit I dread removing people as well though, since they seem to take it personally more often than not.

[IvanXLIV]

There's nothing wrong with being the strong, silent type, Vally

Many ladies enjoy that, and would be perfectly willing to carry the conversation all by themselves...

[Cath]

Really? Who has never cleaned his/her friend list just once? But it's okay, Vally, I understand your feeling.

[Vally]

(02-23-2016, 02:04 PM)IvanXLIV Wrote: There's nothing wrong with being the strong, silent type, Vally

Many ladies enjoy that, and would be perfectly willing to carry the conversation all by themselves...

Maybe.. but as long as I am tongue tied and all they care about are the updates... I guess I will not meet the ladies you talk about.