male characters have it hard

[Vrook]

It is hard as long as you make it that way yourself. Learned it on my self, in the hardway, that some talk, and most important a little kindness goes a long way.

[Benny87]

You can also try to seduce people as you would do IRL.

[Bor]

umm it varies really hard imo. while some ladies are pretty easy to "get" others are harder than most girls irl. c:
Depends on what's your goal~~

[juicylucy]

The way I look at it is if the guy can't carry on a decent conversation prior to going to bed then I can't imagine he will wow me with sexy talk in bed.

[Soske]

U WAN SUM FUK in public chat works pretty often

[FutaPrincessPeach]

Geeze.... Where to start it at...

Okay, first of all, i totally agree on the "Hi" and "Hi babe" part, because that's what i mostly get all the time. And right after that two letters... BAM! invited! Seriously? Am i a doll or something alike to them?

second... cold invites and random friend invites... while i accept the later ones most of time, cold invites get denied ISTANTLY from me. Also i had times where i was standing there, litterally see a guy teleport in, not even 1 second later invite pop up on my screen from that guy and that guy leave istantly after... Are those pussy-seeker missiles or what? O.o

Another kind of men i hate the most is the "This pickup will get her wet" ones... They come at you with some sleazy pick-up lines and think i will go hook, line and sinker like that... Just... Just grow up...

Okay... I pretty much described them all... oh wait... Pic traders... those are one of the worst... they just want your picture and nothing erlse... are we like collectables for them?

What i seek in my partner, male or female or anything in between, is the ability to RP and at least do 2 linees of rp... And FFS just don't bug a girl keeping her annoyed! If she doesn't answer you she have her reasons... i have my reasons to not answer some people already...

I want my partner to be entertaining, make me smile, feel confortable and not the usual noob who says "I fuk u!!11!" all the time... And OH GOD NO! DON'T USE "mmmmmm" during the scenes! T-T

Phew... i did my rantling for a while... hope i... helped? yeah, i guess... ^^

Forgot one last thing... i know it might sound mean, but... Guys usually don't think with their brains between their ears, but the brains between their legs... So just be smart and use the one between the ears... It's worth it ^^

[V3ol]

(12-24-2015, 08:27 AM)Alaw Wrote: Well. It won't be easy anyway, since we, women, are few here. Some advice:

Never forget we are humans! Not 'chicks', not 'babes', not 'whores', not sexbots, and the most of that, we are not here to serve you. Also, don't forget, a woman in this game is usually bombarded by constant invites and incoming chats, that is mostly as simple as 'hi' or 'hi baby' (the latter is worse than just 'hi'). While there's nothing wrong in saying 'hi' (but please, don't add 'baby', it is very vulgar to call an unknown woman that way!), getting the same 'hi' 10 times in 10 seconds is repetetive and boring. You want to impress a woman? Think! And be always ready to wait, because she can be busy.

Really, if you guys think it is easy to be a woman, make a woman ava and see for yourself. I recomend that, you will see how do you really look trying to lure her in bed with cold invites and 'hi baby let's fuck'.

Women are humans! Not objects, and if you are not ready for that, you'd better play something single player, not a social mmo.

Can I thank you?
I explain why... Since this post, my fault, I think that 'babe' could be nice... I learn a precious thing, thank to you ^^
What about 'darling', 'honey', 'sweetie'?
I really need to know what girls think about it, any help is really, really appreciated

[Alaw]

It's actually very easy. Baby, dear, sweety and other endearment terms are used between people who already know each other well and long. Like in family, you know. And when you call an unknown woman like that, it does not sound endearing at all. It sounds vulgar, and somewhat patronising, like you look down at her, seeing her not as a human, but as an object.

While some women can be ok with this, I am not. And that 'babe' word is not just a variation of 'baby', it's a sexist label, used in porn and in objectifying ads, when a woman is depersonalized and viewed as a body only.

[V3ol]

(12-25-2015, 08:39 PM)Alaw Wrote: It's actually very easy. Baby, dear, sweety and other endearment terms are used between people who already know each other well and long. Like in family, you know. And when you call an unknown woman like that, it does not sound endearing at all. It sounds vulgar, and somewhat patronising, like you look down at her, seeing her not as a human, but as an object.

While some women can be ok with this, I am not. And that 'babe' word is not just a variation of 'baby', it's a sexist label, used in porn and in objectifying ads, when a woman is depersonalized and viewed as a body only.

:O Really? I never knew this!
Oh, well... English is not my native language (I'm italian) and I understand only in this moment how rude I've been with some girl -_-'
I'm really sorry for this, but, again, you're very helpful for me

[juicylucy]

The use of these words makes me uncomfortable when I don't know someone. Patronized is exactly how I feel when someone calls me dear. Babe and honey aren't much better. Beautiful and sexy are nicer but can feel creepy sometimes. I do have a name, it is always safe to call me Lucy.

Alaw said it perfectly.