Aggressive Poems

[Sharp]

I can't speak for others, but at no point, in any of my writings, or actually in anything I've ever done in my life, have I sought pity. I despise pity. Pity from others puts you beneath them, as though their life is so much better than yours. Pity towards others puts you above them, as though it is your life that is so much better. Sometimes I look for empathy instead, hoping that I will find somebody in a similar position or situation who can help me and I can help them, or just so that others can read it and think, "I'm not alone in this."

That's why I shared Silence & Darkness, not as a means to get people to take pity on me and be nice to me, but to show others who suffer(ed) from similar feelings that they are never alone. And you know what? I had several people open up to me after that, and I know it helped them. Empathy, not pity, is always the goal for me.

Now, I know those two poems are not aggressive, but this point is still valid; if somebody chooses to pity me after reading those, that is on them. If somebody chooses to empathize with me, then that is on me. It applies to everything. If offence is intended, that is the fault of the author. If offence is taken, that is not the fault of the author (nor the fault of the reader, so don't suggest I'm trying to blame or shame anybody who takes offence).

Now, I have re-read a lot of the poems on here since Emmie raised the point. Some of them I know are aimed at people from MnF, and are forum users. One of them I am aware was, in part, directed at me, although wrongly, and I have received an apology for that.

I have also written one myself that was about somebody who uses the forum and I knew would read it. It hurt them, I apologised and explained, they accepted, we are close friends, and they have at no point even hinted that I should take it down.

"And there you go, you've made a bandwagon. Congratulations, you have successfully made several people target one specific individual." Which specific individual? Nobody has been specified.
The thing is, not a single poem on here that expresses such hate and aggression gives any clear indication of who it is aimed towards. Only those recognise themselves in the words, or those that the author has no doubt voiced their thoughts and feelings towards already, can really be sure of who it is about. If people want to speculate as to who the 'target' is, so be it, but unless the author actually comes out and says "yes, it was that person" then they aren't actually trying to turn anybody against anyone.

I present one of my recent poems, I Won't Fight You Anymore. At no point have I given any indication to who this is about. At no point have I attempted to get people to take pity on me. At no point have I attempted to form a mob and get them to fight alongside me. Read all of my other poems. Identify a single person I actually am aggressive towards, or a poem where I try to make the readers turn on another person.

I write poems because it has become my most effective way of dealing with my depression, anxiety and anger issues. When I am writing, it is also one of the few times I am truly focussed, so in a way I like to think it helps with me ADD. And I share them, as I said, so that people can empathize with me, so I can give them that comfort of knowing they are not alone.

And also because I just want to share. I was at a beer festival a couple of weeks back, and was chatting with some strangers, and ended up showing them some of my poems. Why? Because I have a sense of pride in them. Sure, they aren't all always that great, but it's something I created, and I'm proud of that. Would you tell an painter not to hang their paintings in a gallery? Would you tell a musician not to sing their songs? Of course you wouldn't. Do I listen to a song about a cheating girlfriend and think "oh, what a bitch, let's start a mob and burn her house down!"? Of course I don't. And if somebody did, would you lay blame at the feet of the person who sang that song? No, you would blame the person who burnt her house down.

Not a single poem that I have seen on here is inciting hatred or violence. They don't tell people to gang up on anybody. They don't seek to form an army to wage war on those who once insulted them. They just say "yeah, this happened and I'm not too happy about it," or "here's something somebody did, and I think that is wrong." So, if a mob does form and target somebody, then that is down to either the readers reacting in a way they shouldn't, or because somebody has made that happen another way.

And a final point.
"Here is the disgusting part, some of the authors of these poems claim they are being bullied."
I know who this comment is aimed at. And you know that I will know, and others will know. THIS is targeted. THIS is no less of an attack than anything written in the poems posted here.

[EroticUdyr]

(05-26-2016, 08:50 AM)Anallee Wrote: An extensive yet nonetheless bit of circular reasoning.  So you tell me.  Who is being targeted?  Who is being bullied?  Who will be the censors?  And who are the victims?  What mob do you see?  Cutting and pasting my points, neglecting content or intent proves nothing.  I have read all these poems.  I cannot identify an individual.  I identify the pain.  Perhaps you have a power we don't.  If you are referring to my poems, I have made it abundantly clear that none of you rise to that level of passion with me.  They are drawn from my life and people with faces, or is that too difficult for you to understand.  I have read far more offensive pieces here, yet I respect the authors' right to post.  I hardly agree with a lot of it and I don't prevent it from being posted.  Creative writing is just that.  And, if anyone feels ill at ease when reading some of it, perhaps there is a valid reason for that.

Political correctness will be the death of us all.

Well, circular reasoning isn't necessarily a bad thing. I wanted to mention it in the beginning as "food for thought", in form of a question.
And as you may or may not have noticed, the ending is my opinion, not in the form of a question. Not really a logical fallacy as you'd have it to be.

You ask if I see specific individuals being targeted, being victimized and what specific mob I see, which is kinda redundant.
I do not speak about specific people, nor specific poems. We are talking about targeted poems in general, and I mentioned what such poems may lead to. If you want to be condescending and question my capability to understand, you should at least rid yourself of your fifth grade argumentation. As mentioned, I did not make an argument mentioning specific poems, certainly not yours. 
Because I don't read yours.

Your feelings however are yours to describe and do what you wish with. By your immense desire to question other's understanding, I am sure you understood the part about the guidelines.

Or maybe you are trying to tell that someone's feelings overrule the guidelines and rules that are set for the whole community, including the moderators themselves? I don't see how anyone could possibly think their negative feelings for another individual gives the right to possibly create a mob mentality, that also targets the victim of the poem.

"Who is being targeted?", I am very sure you are friends with most of the poetic authors on this forum. Shouldn't be too hard for you to ask them, they should be able to give you a concrete answer.

"Who is being bullied?", This is a possibility that follows the possibility of creating a mob, after the author has publicly shared his/her point of view and feelings towards a specific individual.

"Who will be the censors?", I am guessing you mean who will be the judges to decide what poems are allowed or not? Well, the whole community should participate in this, but the legal action would be done by the moderators. Kinda obvious, imo.

"And who are the victims?", The victim is the individual the targeted poem is referring to. Obviously.

"What mob do you see?", I see the possibility of mobs forming when such poems are made. Not one singular specific mob.

"I cannot identify an individual.", That is indeed a hard task to do when the poems do not mention names. Though, finding out who the author has targeted with a poem like that is not equally difficult. Especially if you are on good terms with the author.

"Perhaps you have a power we don't.", I have the power to think for myself. I judge the poems to be targeted towards one or several specific individuals. Which I think is an unfair way to bring out your opinions and your poinf of view, no matter how ill you think/feel about someone.

Political correctness can often be seen as a fundamental element to set guidelines, in order for groups of people to behave in a respectful and understanding way. Such as the saying "do unto others as you would have them do unto you", a religious statement.
Very political correct imo, because I do not believe anyone has the right to treat others in a certain way if they would not accept being treated the same.
I would definitely not label that as a possible threat which will "end us all".


-Erotic

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(05-26-2016, 09:34 AM)Sharp Wrote: I can't speak for others, but at no point, in any of my writings, or actually in anything I've ever done in my life, have I sought pity. I despise pity. Pity from others puts you beneath them, as though their life is so much better than yours. Pity towards others puts you above them, as though it is your life that is so much better. Sometimes I look for empathy instead, hoping that I will find somebody in a similar position or situation who can help me and I can help them, or just so that others can read it and think, "I'm not alone in this."

That's why I shared Silence & Darkness, not as a means to get people to take pity on me and be nice to me, but to show others who suffer(ed) from similar feelings that they are never alone. And you know what? I had several people open up to me after that, and I know it helped them. Empathy, not pity, is always the goal for me.

Now, I know those two poems are not aggressive, but this point is still valid; if somebody chooses to pity me after reading those, that is on them. If somebody chooses to empathize with me, then that is on me. It applies to everything. If offence is intended, that is the fault of the author. If offence is taken, that is not the fault of the author (nor the fault of the reader, so don't suggest I'm trying to blame or shame anybody who takes offence).

Now, I have re-read a lot of the poems on here since Emmie raised the point. Some of them I know are aimed at people from MnF, and are forum users. One of them I am aware was, in part, directed at me, although wrongly, and I have received an apology for that.

I have also written one myself that was about somebody who uses the forum and I knew would read it. It hurt them, I apologised and explained, they accepted, we are close friends, and they have at no point even hinted that I should take it down.

"And there you go, you've made a bandwagon. Congratulations, you have successfully made several people target one specific individual." Which specific individual? Nobody has been specified.
The thing is, not a single poem on here that expresses such hate and aggression gives any clear indication of who it is aimed towards. Only those recognise themselves in the words, or those that the author has no doubt voiced their thoughts and feelings towards already, can really be sure of who it is about. If people want to speculate as to who the 'target' is, so be it, but unless the author actually comes out and says "yes, it was that person" then they aren't actually trying to turn anybody against anyone.

I present one of my recent poems, I Won't Fight You Anymore. At no point have I given any indication to who this is about. At no point have I attempted to get people to take pity on me. At no point have I attempted to form a mob and get them to fight alongside me. Read all of my other poems. Identify a single person I actually am aggressive towards, or a poem where I try to make the readers turn on another person.

I write poems because it has become my most effective way of dealing with my depression, anxiety and anger issues. When I am writing, it is also one of the few times I am truly focussed, so in a way I like to think it helps with me ADD. And I share them, as I said, so that people can empathize with me, so I can give them that comfort of knowing they are not alone.

And also because I just want to share. I was at a beer festival a couple of weeks back, and was chatting with some strangers, and ended up showing them some of my poems. Why? Because I have a sense of pride in them. Sure, they aren't all always that great, but it's something I created, and I'm proud of that. Would you tell an painter not to hang their paintings in a gallery? Would you tell a musician not to sing their songs? Of course you wouldn't. Do I listen to a song about a cheating girlfriend and think "oh, what a bitch, let's start a mob and burn her house down!"? Of course I don't. And if somebody did, would you lay blame at the feet of the person who sang that song? No, you would blame the person who burnt her house down.

Not a single poem that I have seen on here is inciting hatred or violence. They don't tell people to gang up on anybody. They don't seek to form an army to wage war on those who once insulted them. They just say "yeah, this happened and I'm not too happy about it," or "here's something somebody did, and I think that is wrong." So, if a mob does form and target somebody, then that is down to either the readers reacting in a way they shouldn't, or because somebody has made that happen another way.

And a final point.
"Here is the disgusting part, some of the authors of these poems claim they are being bullied."
I know who this comment is aimed at. And you know that I will know, and others will know. THIS is targeted. THIS is no less of an attack than anything written in the poems posted here.

What I suspect is how easy it is to know who the poems are targeting, especially if you have the right relations with individuals that are involved in the case.

About pity: I did not say the author was wishing for pity, but that is mostly what you will get when or if you victimize yourself. Victimizing oneself is thereofore not an effective way of resolving a dispute.

I suspect mob mentality to be a threat on this forum. Now you may also know that the ones who had that "campaign" against you were also affected by said mentality, that's understandable, right?
Someone speaks to a crowd of people, they listen, and before they are able to figure out who actually said this and that, you end up with a mob that targets specific individuals.


I have not mentioned any specific poems, I have talked about the danger of making targeted poems. Mainly because of the possibility of creating a mob mentality within the community.

"Here is the disgusting part, some of the authors of these poems claim they are being bullied.", Of course this is targeted, and it is justified as well, because it is the truth. Do I not have the right to think it's disgusting of someone to claim they're being bullied when they make targeted poems, which as mentioned may lead to a herd?

You've witnessed it yourself several times, how certain people manage to turn others against eachother, have you not? I have.

Now, the possibility of a poem making a mob that targets a specific individual is, of course, debatable. This is however my opinion.
Freedom of speech, yo.

-Erotic

[Lexirific]

(05-26-2016, 09:44 AM)EroticUdyr Wrote: "I cannot identify an individual.", That is indeed a hard task to do when the poems do not mention names. Though, finding out who the author has targeted with a poem like that is not equally difficult. Especially if you are on good terms with the author.

Nobody has asked me who my poems are aimed at. Even if they did, I wouldn't tell them. If anybody already knows, it is because I have gone to them as a friend to discuss problems. But no, the great wise ER assumes we all love to dish the dirt on everybody to whoever asks! Err, no, some of us do actually have self respect. And respect for others. You point is null and void.

(05-26-2016, 09:44 AM)EroticUdyr Wrote: "Here is the disgusting part, some of the authors of these poems claim they are being bullied.", Of course this is targeted, and it is justified as well, because it is the truth. Do I not have the right to think it's disgusting of someone to claim they're being bullied when they make targeted poems, which as mentioned may lead to a herd?

So now you admit to targeting people intentionally? After complaining of other people targeting others? Hypocrite, yo!
And you say it is justified? What, and my poem about somebody who believes that they know me better than I know myself, simply because they are older, and telling them they are wrong, isn't justified? My poem telling somebody who was spreading lies about me in game to basically go fuck themselves, isn't justified? Anallee telling the person who abused her that she's leaving them because of how they hurt her, isn't justified? Sharp's poem about somebody making promises to him and then later breaking every single one, and calling them out on it, isn't justified?

And I think Sharp made it pretty clear that you can't blame one person if a mob forms of their own accord. I can post on here, if I want, that a specific person bullied me. Now, what people choose to do with that is their own decision. Unless I tell them to act in a certain way, or even suggest they do, then okay, shame on me. But no poems here name anybody. No poems here call on others to take action. No poems here call for people to rise up and bully somebody.

Everything has risk. The first time we met in-game, ER, you said something to the following effect: "(anonymous name) is too sensitive and thinks everybody is out to get him." By your reasoning, the fact that I hate every shred of your being is actually your fault. When you complained that I made a comment towards you about how you are, in my opinion, a despicable piece of shit, that was actually your own fault, because you made me hate you. If instead I had decided to believe your words, and had seen this other person, and made fun of them for being overly sensitive, then that would also be your fault. But I'm pretty sure you have actually denied all accountability for this. So again, you are just a hypocrite.

Oh, and if you think this is targeted, let me confirm that it is, with a quote: "Of course this is targeted, and it is justified as well, because it is the truth."

[EroticUdyr]

(05-26-2016, 10:35 AM)Lexilicious Wrote:

(05-26-2016, 09:44 AM)EroticUdyr Wrote: "I cannot identify an individual.", That is indeed a hard task to do when the poems do not mention names. Though, finding out who the author has targeted with a poem like that is not equally difficult. Especially if you are on good terms with the author.

Nobody has asked me who my poems are aimed at. Even if they did, I wouldn't tell them. If anybody already knows, it is because I have gone to them as a friend to discuss problems. But no, the great wise ER assumes we all love to dish the dirt on everybody to whoever asks! Err, no, some of us do actually have self respect. And respect for others. You point is null and void.

(05-26-2016, 09:44 AM)EroticUdyr Wrote: "Here is the disgusting part, some of the authors of these poems claim they are being bullied.", Of course this is targeted, and it is justified as well, because it is the truth. Do I not have the right to think it's disgusting of someone to claim they're being bullied when they make targeted poems, which as mentioned may lead to a herd?

So now you admit to targeting people intentionally? After complaining of other people targeting others? Hypocrite, yo!
And you say it is justified? What, and my poem about somebody who believes that they know me better than I know myself, simply because they are older, and telling them they are wrong, isn't justified? My poem telling somebody who was spreading lies about me in game to basically go fuck themselves, isn't justified? Anallee telling the person who abused her that she's leaving them because of how they hurt her, isn't justified? Sharp's poem about somebody making promises to him and then later breaking every single one, and calling them out on it, isn't justified?

And I think Sharp made it pretty clear that you can't blame one person if a mob forms of their own accord. I can post on here, if I want, that a specific person bullied me. Now, what people choose to do with that is their own decision. Unless I tell them to act in a certain way, or even suggest they do, then okay, shame on me. But no poems here name anybody. No poems here call on others to take action. No poems here call for people to rise up and bully somebody.

Everything has risk. The first time we met in-game, ER, you said something to the following effect: "(anonymous name) is too sensitive and thinks everybody is out to get him." By your reasoning, the fact that I hate every shred of your being is actually your fault. When you complained that I made a comment towards you about how you are, in my opinion, a despicable piece of shit, that was actually your own fault, because you made me hate you. If instead I had decided to believe your words, and had seen this other person, and made fun of them for being overly sensitive, then that would also be your fault. But I'm pretty sure you have actually denied all accountability for this. So again, you are just a hypocrite.

Oh, and if you think this is targeted, let me confirm that it is, with a quote: "Of course this is targeted, and it is justified as well, because it is the truth."

For the record, when I talk about the dangers the targeted poems bring - I am not talking about you.
Stop seeing everything I write as a personal attack.

The danger of the mob mentality is there no matter who writes it.

I don't blame you for hating me though, that's like.. your opinion. Though it has nothing to do with this thread. Hijacking?
Bringing your personal opinions about me in a thread about targeted poems is absolutely unecessary, mainly because I have not mentioned your name. Which is the same excuse as you are using for your poems. Wanna discuss who's being a hypocrite?

Now, get back to the thread and state your opinions on making targeted poems.
My opinion is that there's a risk of forming a mob mentality, even with without any names being mentioned.

It is also an unfair way of letting your "target(s)" know what you feel/think about them/her/him.
It is also unecessary, because you give the whole community a chance to get involved in a personal matter between you and the "target".

My suggestion: Set some guidelines for this type of poems, so we won't have to discuss whether it's a good or a bad thing.

-Erotic

[Emmie]

I think most of you have misunderstood the meaning of my post, and I feel like this has derailed a bit. I shall try to get it back on track. I did not aim this at any one person, there have been complaints, and I know of some poems that were directed. I'm not mentioning which and for the purpose of this thread, it doesn't matter. I am all for freedom of speech, but I don't approve of it when the purpose of a poem is to get a message through to someone you're in a fight with. Unless it's an appology or something. Nazis weren't allowed to speak at my school, for obvious reasons, should we get angry with schools now, cause they're censoring? I'm not comparing nazism to writing an angry poem to someone else. But I am making an extreme example just to get the point across. Freedom of speech is amazing! Hate is not...

And no, I don't know which and what poem is meant as such or not. I do not claim that. I know some. I assume the person who writes them knows. And that's why I ASKED everyone, to not write poems like that. Is that hard to understand? In what way am I censoring? I ASKED people not to be dicks. Is that too much to ask? I ASKED people not to be mean, is that hard to comply with? I ASKED that drama and such be left between you and the involved people, and maybe moderators if needed, is that a weird request?

I assume all of you are adults and fairly healthy in mind. Which means when you sit there and write your poem, you know wether or not it's an angry poem directed at someone else in the game or on the forum, or not. In my first postl, I posed 4 questions. "Have you asked the person in question if they are ok with this? Did they say yes? Would you like it if someone wrote a poem like that about you? Was this so important it had to be made public?" and went on to say that if you answer no to any one of those questions, you might not wanna post it. Now, obviously if you ask the person and they say yes, that kinda overwrites the last 2 questions, the last two were more of a moral nature. But what it came down to, was, don't be mean to others. If you aren't, why should you get angry at me for making this thread. I made quite the effort to point out that this was not directed at anyone specific, nor at angry poems in general. But the ones that attack someone here who will in turn feel hurt.

I Hate You

The way you loom over my shoulder
How everywhere I go, I see you
Why should I have to carry you around
Tearing at my conscience
Day and night, there you are
Seconds to hours, you haunt my dreams
I wish you would stop!
Just leave me alone!
I hate you!

I made this poem about death, please don't judge it on the quality, I'm no poet, and this was made as an example. It's quite angry, but I believe it's fine. Death has no feelings, it's just a thing that happens, but I hate it and felt like I wanted to express that somehow. This, to me, is an example of an angry poem that I believe is fine, cause I'm not pointing out flaws or slinging angry words at any specific person on here. All I did was share my anger with death with all you fine people on the forum.

You Are Stupid

I look at you,
I no longer see a friend
You turned your back on me
And now I will turn my back on you
I will never forget, a betrayal so harsh
We are no longer together, now fuck off

This poem was directed at a hypothetical person that I was in a made up fight with. I believe he or she wronged me and I wrote this poem for him/her and everyone else to read. This is what I'm asking people not to do. This is an angry poem I don't approve of. How would you feel if the hypothetical person was you?

Now, as most of you probably noticed, these poems could be reversed. So "You Are Stupid" is about death/life and "I Hate You" is about a person I had a fight with. And that's what I mean. It's not the content I dislike, it's the intention. The meaning behind the poem. Now, I may have exagerated how many of these poems have been brought to my attention, but there are some and those are the ones I don't like. Angry poems are fine, angry poems that attack someone or some people on here, are not. I may not know which are which, but the people involved will. That's why I asked people to not write poems like that. Write all the anger you want for all I care, damn death! Damn cancer! Damn sickness! Damn long work hours! Damn nazism! Damn space aliens! Damn stepping on legos!

The reason I was gonna talk with the other moderators was cause I wanted to know how we should approach it if someone comes to us and says "Hi, this poem is aimed at me, and I don't like it.", not how we're gonna start pulling down every angry poem we see.

Wether or not that's the intent, it creates a sort of mob mentality, when people pat you on the back and say they're missing out or whatever other compliment they come up with. It kinda feels like you're getting people on your side, even if it's not meant to start some kinda of war. That's besides the point though. And I'm not accusing anyone of this, it's just a side effect of the whole thing.

Please don't put words into my mouth and don't act like I'm stupid just cause you don't agree with me. We're entitled to our opinions, and I tried to bring this topic up in a friendly manner so that we could discuss it as adults. Also, stop arguing with eachother about eachother!!! This was not the point of my thread! And I will start giving warnings if people don't stop slinging insults. That is a threat. ^^

[Anallee]

(05-26-2016, 09:44 AM)EroticUdyr Wrote:

(05-26-2016, 08:50 AM)Anallee Wrote: An extensive yet nonetheless bit of circular reasoning.  So you tell me.  Who is being targeted?  Who is being bullied?  Who will be the censors?  And who are the victims?  What mob do you see?  Cutting and pasting my points, neglecting content or intent proves nothing.  I have read all these poems.  I cannot identify an individual.  I identify the pain.  Perhaps you have a power we don't.  If you are referring to my poems, I have made it abundantly clear that none of you rise to that level of passion with me.  They are drawn from my life and people with faces, or is that too difficult for you to understand.  I have read far more offensive pieces here, yet I respect the authors' right to post.  I hardly agree with a lot of it and I don't prevent it from being posted.  Creative writing is just that.  And, if anyone feels ill at ease when reading some of it, perhaps there is a valid reason for that.

Political correctness will be the death of us all.

Well, circular reasoning isn't necessarily a bad thing. I wanted to mention it in the beginning as "food for thought", in form of a question.
And as you may or may not have noticed, the ending is my opinion, not in the form of a question. Not really a logical fallacy as you'd have it to be.

You ask if I see specific individuals being targeted, being victimized and what specific mob I see, which is kinda redundant.
I do not speak about specific people, nor specific poems. We are talking about targeted poems in general, and I mentioned what such poems may lead to. If you want to be condescending and question my capability to understand, you should at least rid yourself of your fifth grade argumentation. As mentioned, I did not make an argument mentioning specific poems, certainly not yours. 
Because I don't read yours.

Your feelings however are yours to describe and do what you wish with. By your immense desire to question other's understanding, I am sure you understood the part about the guidelines.

Or maybe you are trying to tell that someone's feelings overrule the guidelines and rules that are set for the whole community, including the moderators themselves? I don't see how anyone could possibly think their negative feelings for another individual gives the right to possibly create a mob mentality, that also targets the victim of the poem.

"Who is being targeted?", I am very sure you are friends with most of the poetic authors on this forum. Shouldn't be too hard for you to ask them, they should be able to give you a concrete answer.

"Who is being bullied?", This is a possibility that follows the possibility of creating a mob, after the author has publicly shared his/her point of view and feelings towards a specific individual.

"Who will be the censors?", I am guessing you mean who will be the judges to decide what poems are allowed or not? Well, the whole community should participate in this, but the legal action would be done by the moderators. Kinda obvious, imo.

"And who are the victims?", The victim is the individual the targeted poem is referring to. Obviously.

"What mob do you see?", I see the possibility of mobs forming when such poems are made. Not one singular specific mob.

"I cannot identify an individual.", That is indeed a hard task to do when the poems do not mention names. Though, finding out who the author has targeted with a poem like that is not equally difficult. Especially if you are on good terms with the author.

"Perhaps you have a power we don't.", I have the power to think for myself. I judge the poems to be targeted towards one or several specific individuals. Which I think is an unfair way to bring out your opinions and your poinf of view, no matter how ill you think/feel about someone.

Political correctness can often be seen as a fundamental element to set guidelines, in order for groups of people to behave in a respectful and understanding way. Such as the saying "do unto others as you would have them do unto you", a religious statement.
Very political correct imo, because I do not believe anyone has the right to treat others in a certain way if they would not accept being treated the same.
I would definitely not label that as a possible threat which will "end us all".


-Erotic

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(05-26-2016, 09:34 AM)Sharp Wrote: I can't speak for others, but at no point, in any of my writings, or actually in anything I've ever done in my life, have I sought pity. I despise pity. Pity from others puts you beneath them, as though their life is so much better than yours. Pity towards others puts you above them, as though it is your life that is so much better. Sometimes I look for empathy instead, hoping that I will find somebody in a similar position or situation who can help me and I can help them, or just so that others can read it and think, "I'm not alone in this."

That's why I shared Silence & Darkness, not as a means to get people to take pity on me and be nice to me, but to show others who suffer(ed) from similar feelings that they are never alone. And you know what? I had several people open up to me after that, and I know it helped them. Empathy, not pity, is always the goal for me.

Now, I know those two poems are not aggressive, but this point is still valid; if somebody chooses to pity me after reading those, that is on them. If somebody chooses to empathize with me, then that is on me. It applies to everything. If offence is intended, that is the fault of the author. If offence is taken, that is not the fault of the author (nor the fault of the reader, so don't suggest I'm trying to blame or shame anybody who takes offence).

Now, I have re-read a lot of the poems on here since Emmie raised the point. Some of them I know are aimed at people from MnF, and are forum users. One of them I am aware was, in part, directed at me, although wrongly, and I have received an apology for that.

I have also written one myself that was about somebody who uses the forum and I knew would read it. It hurt them, I apologised and explained, they accepted, we are close friends, and they have at no point even hinted that I should take it down.

"And there you go, you've made a bandwagon. Congratulations, you have successfully made several people target one specific individual." Which specific individual? Nobody has been specified.
The thing is, not a single poem on here that expresses such hate and aggression gives any clear indication of who it is aimed towards. Only those recognise themselves in the words, or those that the author has no doubt voiced their thoughts and feelings towards already, can really be sure of who it is about. If people want to speculate as to who the 'target' is, so be it, but unless the author actually comes out and says "yes, it was that person" then they aren't actually trying to turn anybody against anyone.

I present one of my recent poems, I Won't Fight You Anymore. At no point have I given any indication to who this is about. At no point have I attempted to get people to take pity on me. At no point have I attempted to form a mob and get them to fight alongside me. Read all of my other poems. Identify a single person I actually am aggressive towards, or a poem where I try to make the readers turn on another person.

I write poems because it has become my most effective way of dealing with my depression, anxiety and anger issues. When I am writing, it is also one of the few times I am truly focussed, so in a way I like to think it helps with me ADD. And I share them, as I said, so that people can empathize with me, so I can give them that comfort of knowing they are not alone.

And also because I just want to share. I was at a beer festival a couple of weeks back, and was chatting with some strangers, and ended up showing them some of my poems. Why? Because I have a sense of pride in them. Sure, they aren't all always that great, but it's something I created, and I'm proud of that. Would you tell an painter not to hang their paintings in a gallery? Would you tell a musician not to sing their songs? Of course you wouldn't. Do I listen to a song about a cheating girlfriend and think "oh, what a bitch, let's start a mob and burn her house down!"? Of course I don't. And if somebody did, would you lay blame at the feet of the person who sang that song? No, you would blame the person who burnt her house down.

Not a single poem that I have seen on here is inciting hatred or violence. They don't tell people to gang up on anybody. They don't seek to form an army to wage war on those who once insulted them. They just say "yeah, this happened and I'm not too happy about it," or "here's something somebody did, and I think that is wrong." So, if a mob does form and target somebody, then that is down to either the readers reacting in a way they shouldn't, or because somebody has made that happen another way.

And a final point.
"Here is the disgusting part, some of the authors of these poems claim they are being bullied."
I know who this comment is aimed at. And you know that I will know, and others will know. THIS is targeted. THIS is no less of an attack than anything written in the poems posted here.

What I suspect is how easy it is to know who the poems are targeting, especially if you have the right relations with individuals that are involved in the case.

About pity: I did not say the author was wishing for pity, but that is mostly what you will get when or if you victimize yourself. Victimizing oneself is thereofore not an effective way of resolving a dispute.

I suspect mob mentality to be a threat on this forum. Now you may also know that the ones who had that "campaign" against you were also affected by said mentality, that's understandable, right?
Someone speaks to a crowd of people, they listen, and before they are able to figure out who actually said this and that, you end up with a mob that targets specific individuals.


I have not mentioned any specific poems, I have talked about the danger of making targeted poems. Mainly because of the possibility of creating a mob mentality within the community.

"Here is the disgusting part, some of the authors of these poems claim they are being bullied.", Of course this is targeted, and it is justified as well, because it is the truth. Do I not have the right to think it's disgusting of someone to claim they're being bullied when they make targeted poems, which as mentioned may lead to a herd?

You've witnessed it yourself several times, how certain people manage to turn others against eachother, have you not? I have.

Now, the possibility of a poem making a mob that targets a specific individual is, of course, debatable. This is however my opinion.
Freedom of speech, yo.

-Erotic

1.  Perhaps you should look at the definition of circular reasoning.

2.  " you should at least rid yourself of your fifth grade argumentation".  You know so little of me and have just proved your ignorance and bigotry.  Do I consider this targeted?  Yes I do.  So as Lexi so aptly put it a hypocritical piece of shit fits you nicely.

3.  I never question another's understanding.  You seem to do it all the time.

4.  Don't pretend to lecture me on forum guidelines.  You are nothing to me other than an anonymous, faceless, pretentious fool.

5.  Your assumption of who my friends are is just that, an assumption, so speaks to your arrogance and ignorance

6.  I stand for Freedom.  Of Thought.  Of Ideas.  Of Expression.  Of Free Speech.  Of Creative License.  You stand for repression, suppression and censorship.

Buckle up buttercup, it's a big bad world out here.

Perhaps you may gain some insight from this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qxyUl9M_7vc

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Thank you Sharp for your eloquent and elegant words.  Thank you Lexi for your blunt honesty.

[Emmie]

I got one thing to say to that Anallee. Just cause there is freedom of speech, doesn't mean you should be an asshole. I specifically said not to bring shit to the thread and to keep it civil... Congratulations on not giving a fuck and showing what an amazing anarchist you are. Kudos. Rage against the machine and all that.

Please read what I am saying, and please understand. Freedom of Speech is great and all, but that does NOT mean we should practice that for spreading hate. Like you are currently doing, even though I asked people not to, even though this whole thread was meant to counter that spread.

[Cath]

I'm a bit worried... Should I delete mine? Since I think it's a bit harsh...

[brandon1op]

So..many..words

[Anallee]

(05-26-2016, 07:41 PM)Emmie Wrote: I got one thing to say to that Anallee. Just cause there is freedom of speech, doesn't mean you should be an asshole. I specifically said not to bring shit to the thread and to keep it civil... Congratulations on not giving a fuck and showing what an amazing anarchist you are. Kudos. Rage against the machine and all that.

Please read what I am saying, and please understand. Freedom of Speech is great and all, but that does NOT mean we should practice that for spreading hate. Like you are currently doing, even though I asked people not to, even though this whole thread was meant to counter that spread.

Speaking Truth to "power" and now your true self appears.  As to spreading hate, I think not.  Defending myself and defending freedom of expression in a forum labeled CREATIVE WRITING, yes.  Let me make this perfectly clear once more.  My poems about My pain involve no one in this game or on this forum.  Not a single one of you can ever rise to that level of passion.  Stop thinking so highly of yourselves.  Got it?  I am done with you.  Much better things to do today.  Have a nice life.