12-13-2019, 12:17 AM
I mean.. I always assume some of the "BBC_"s online weren't all black. In fact, you cannot be too sure to know who is what behind the screen.
Either way, it's imperative that you respect others kinks and "how to be black". I'm black myself, and I can say that I have seen poor representations such as saying the 'N' word and mentioning abhorrent stereotypes..
Then again, there are those people that get off on raceplay.. *shudders*
But hey! Who am I to kink-shame? Anyway, sure you can change your skin to a darker tone. But there is no "way to be black". Just be yourself and be your personality says you are.
I cannot stress this enough. If a person tells you "there is a way to be black", 99.9% is that they are stereotyping-- and 9 times out of 10, it's a negative stereotype. In fact, there is no correct way to be a race/ethnicity. Race is something you're born with.
Either way, it's imperative that you respect others kinks and "how to be black". I'm black myself, and I can say that I have seen poor representations such as saying the 'N' word and mentioning abhorrent stereotypes..
Then again, there are those people that get off on raceplay.. *shudders*
But hey! Who am I to kink-shame? Anyway, sure you can change your skin to a darker tone. But there is no "way to be black". Just be yourself and be your personality says you are.
I cannot stress this enough. If a person tells you "there is a way to be black", 99.9% is that they are stereotyping-- and 9 times out of 10, it's a negative stereotype. In fact, there is no correct way to be a race/ethnicity. Race is something you're born with.