02-22-2016, 11:03 PM
(This post was last modified: 02-22-2016, 11:08 PM by firstfletch.)
(02-22-2016, 10:07 AM)Fenix-TS Wrote: wow...good for you, learning is a very important part for our growing as a person, we welcome you on our community
Thanks
(02-22-2016, 11:28 AM)Nikolai Wrote: Why are you apologizing? there is no need for that.
If anything your feeding into the sense of entitlement some people seem to have in this game.
Send your messages and invites, if they don't reply move on and don't bother them, you haven't done anything wrong.
Good point. I think there is a happy medium in there
(02-22-2016, 11:51 AM)Emmie Wrote: I agree that you don't have to apologise, unless you treated people badly. But its a nice gesture. Shows you're willing to put some effort in if nothing else. And that's never wrong.
Another good point. Based on some pretty negative reactions I got I assumed I was breaking etiquette.
(02-22-2016, 11:58 AM)Sharpey Wrote: Not sure what you think you've done wrong here. Not sending cold invites already puts you way ahead of a lot of new players (male or female), and even some of the more experienced players too. Boring conversations (I'm assuming you just mean the general "Hi how are you" "fine thanks, you" bollocks) happen, but at least it's an attempt to talk, and opens up the possibility of something.
Some people are picky, some are easy. Some are happy to welcome new players, meet new people, make new friends; others are happy with what they got. Just because somebody responds rudely, or does not respond at all, doesn't mean you've done anything wrong.
The only thing I would say you may have learnt is that this is not just a sex game; many are here for the social aspect, enjoying the chat and spending time with friends.
And as Fenix says, welcome to the community.
Thanks. One of the reasons I posted this was looking for some hidden advice I guess