02-22-2016, 11:58 AM
Not sure what you think you've done wrong here. Not sending cold invites already puts you way ahead of a lot of new players (male or female), and even some of the more experienced players too. Boring conversations (I'm assuming you just mean the general "Hi how are you" "fine thanks, you" bollocks) happen, but at least it's an attempt to talk, and opens up the possibility of something.
Some people are picky, some are easy. Some are happy to welcome new players, meet new people, make new friends; others are happy with what they got. Just because somebody responds rudely, or does not respond at all, doesn't mean you've done anything wrong.
The only thing I would say you may have learnt is that this is not just a sex game; many are here for the social aspect, enjoying the chat and spending time with friends.
And as Fenix says, welcome to the community.
Some people are picky, some are easy. Some are happy to welcome new players, meet new people, make new friends; others are happy with what they got. Just because somebody responds rudely, or does not respond at all, doesn't mean you've done anything wrong.
The only thing I would say you may have learnt is that this is not just a sex game; many are here for the social aspect, enjoying the chat and spending time with friends.
And as Fenix says, welcome to the community.