How to be black?

[Emmie]

I think it's important to remember that there are as many combinations of fetishes as there are people. What you like, someone else might not. Some fetishes may match, while others don't. As for appealing to real women (or men for that matter), be yourself. There's people that like it rough, there's people that like it gentle. Some like a bit of abuse, some like to be treated kindly. There are those who like older women or men, there are those who like them closer to their own age, or younger for that matter (as long as it is within legal reason). And yes, there are those who like specific skin colors, or different curves and sizes. The list goes on, but there are a few things that I think most of us can agree that we like. Honesty and genuineness. That's not to say you can't roleplay a BBC, or an orc, or even a person with several personalities. But I think it's important to go with something that you enjoy. Cause if you do things that you yourself enjoy, together with others who enjoy the same thing. That's when you create genuine connections. There's no easy road to success. Do you, and eventually you'll find what works best for you.

I'm not talking about using MnF Club as Tinder btw, this is a game. Think of it more like playing another MMO, like WoW for example, and looking for a guild. You look for a guild that is doing stuff you wanna do. You don't change your own preferences to match more guilds. A bit of a stretch as far as metaphors go, but I think it gets the message across.