07-30-2018, 06:22 PM
(03-20-2018, 02:06 PM)Overfiend, I actually came here to start a thread about what men do wrong/right in MnFland... and possibly another to advise the Ladies in how to avoid these things and help Men find what WE want. However, I am not allowed to start a new thread, I guess, as there is no "New Thread Button" for me. A problem that I see when approached by low level men (as well as some higher ones), in game, is that many seem to forget that there is another person on the other end of the conversation. That person has fantasies and desires, much as do you. My persona, in game, is one that speaks to my "Pretty Woman Fantasy". The Hooker with a heart of gold... If you approach me saying, "Hey, Bebe. Nice tits, Can I fuck you?", you are not feeding MY fantasy, a bit. I am not interested, at that point. Some are, I\m not. Grabbing, smacking my butt, and the dreaded "URL to your dickpic", are NOT ways to interest most of us. This might prove interesting, should you spend the time to discover my wants, before tossing those in my face. I help lower levels, as much as I can. I have played a few years, now, and have worked my way to being an Executive in an Escort Agency, and love it. I approach my characterization as if I were truly HER! I am a naturally outgoing woman, and I draw from my "in real life" (irl) characteristics...I am much like Julia Roberts' character in that movie, I mentioned, tho I could never become a real life prostitute. If you state, in your 2nd or 3rd pm message that you "don't EVER "PAY" for it... you have denied me, MY fantasy, and I have just lost interest in you. When I say "bye", leave me alone, right? On the other hand, should you simply think, "I do n't have the game cash to afford her.", there are thngs that you can do...such as, simply making a reasonable offer that you CAN afford, or attempting (thru RP) to interest me. Many Men simply don't try any of that...and I usaually make a mental note to avoid their Avi's. If I am able to start a thread, in the future, I intend to start one concerning these issues in our little world of MnFland... I look at what I do as providing a real life service to members who "purchase dates" with me, in game. I attempt to ensure that we both (or the 3 of us) find a relaxing time together, that makes our days in the real world, a little less stressful, or at least all ows a break form that reality...Maybe I am applying too much Psychology to a simple game, but, I feel that these "encounters" have the ability to relieve stress and anxiety...it works for me... See you, out there in MnFland..I'll be the "Hooker with a Heart of Gold! Wrote: I have wondered the very same thing. You are not alone. Though i think rejection is a natural part of the process of finding a match. Also keep in mind that there are some real-life males with female avatars so that could add to the number of rejections. Hence why i have suggested the implementation of an MNF Match Maker tool to help us narrow down our search. Nevertheless, I am eager to hear from the real ladies of MNF about what piques their interest.
(07-18-2018, 02:06 PM)Emmie Also, I love your banana eating cat. It looks exactly like my little Kitty Ket. He is siting on my chair at my shoulders, right now. Wrote: I think a good way is to check the bio of the person you wanna start a conversation with. See if there's anything there that could be a good icebreaker. That can't be copy pasted though.