06-23-2018, 12:30 AM
Imma calling it for what it is, and imma not reducing rape, imma trying to make clear that what is being done is serious.
Rape is not a sexual kinky. If it is sex, and it is not consensual, it is rape. Sexual assault, unprovoked, uninvited, and unwelcome, is as criminal as pedophilia. Interesting that ageplay is mentioned as unnacceptable, and abusive language also, but if a guy describes an obvious violent action using words that are not cursive, the girl who reports it is just making drama.
And my point is, which keeps being missed here is that attitude of "hey, let go, it's just a game, deal with it", keeps being recommended instead of "hey asshole, stop harrassing the women in the game". First, it was said, "we need evidence". Now, it is said "well, you can ignore". This is rationalizing the problem, not tackling it.
Example: See what you said? You've had "plenty of people approaching you like that". That. Means. The behaviour. Is. Toxic.
Ignoring doens't make it go away. WE have to deal with it, take daily doses of assholes coming at us with rps, cold invites and whatnot, but on the other hand... what do they have to do? Just looking for the next "hoe/slut/bitch" to offend and abuse? In the meanwhile WE have to put up with it, and they have to worry only about the words they use to, yes, RAPE.
"Ignore, say no, don't respond, all valid choices and that's where it ends. " No, is is not. For as long as this is the solution, it is not. Being clear, you, the moderators, should have a clear stance about this. While you take this "case by case" and accuse girls of drama, the guys that really ruin this game for us are there, pissing us off. Either say, as a group, that you are against non consensual approaches, or say that it is fine, and that us girls have to fend for ourselves. But to trust you and get this kind of "come on... but..." lines, while the guys that insist on doing that do not merit a warning, is too little.
Rape is not a sexual kinky. If it is sex, and it is not consensual, it is rape. Sexual assault, unprovoked, uninvited, and unwelcome, is as criminal as pedophilia. Interesting that ageplay is mentioned as unnacceptable, and abusive language also, but if a guy describes an obvious violent action using words that are not cursive, the girl who reports it is just making drama.
And my point is, which keeps being missed here is that attitude of "hey, let go, it's just a game, deal with it", keeps being recommended instead of "hey asshole, stop harrassing the women in the game". First, it was said, "we need evidence". Now, it is said "well, you can ignore". This is rationalizing the problem, not tackling it.
Example: See what you said? You've had "plenty of people approaching you like that". That. Means. The behaviour. Is. Toxic.
Ignoring doens't make it go away. WE have to deal with it, take daily doses of assholes coming at us with rps, cold invites and whatnot, but on the other hand... what do they have to do? Just looking for the next "hoe/slut/bitch" to offend and abuse? In the meanwhile WE have to put up with it, and they have to worry only about the words they use to, yes, RAPE.
"Ignore, say no, don't respond, all valid choices and that's where it ends. " No, is is not. For as long as this is the solution, it is not. Being clear, you, the moderators, should have a clear stance about this. While you take this "case by case" and accuse girls of drama, the guys that really ruin this game for us are there, pissing us off. Either say, as a group, that you are against non consensual approaches, or say that it is fine, and that us girls have to fend for ourselves. But to trust you and get this kind of "come on... but..." lines, while the guys that insist on doing that do not merit a warning, is too little.