01-21-2016, 04:40 PM
Hey Joana!
I share your sentiment with using toys when things get heated.
Personally, I have the Hitachi magic wand that I use to stimulate myself when I'm in the mood with my partner and I highly recommend it. I feel like it greatly enhances the experience for me and for my partner as well! While I may be less chatty in the "words per minute" sense while using it, I get more into the sexual experience and find myself being more descriptive with my actions and what I would like to do to my partner. I've found that telling my partner that I'm using a toy on my end usually makes them more excited and eager! Sometimes I'll ask my partner to talk dirty to me, ask them what they want to do to me, and the like and I'll just soak in the words and get lost in the moment while using my wand. I guess you could say that I'm an advocate for the use of toys to help enhance roleplay, fantasies and all other sexual experiences! 
I share your sentiment with using toys when things get heated.
Personally, I have the Hitachi magic wand that I use to stimulate myself when I'm in the mood with my partner and I highly recommend it. I feel like it greatly enhances the experience for me and for my partner as well! While I may be less chatty in the "words per minute" sense while using it, I get more into the sexual experience and find myself being more descriptive with my actions and what I would like to do to my partner. I've found that telling my partner that I'm using a toy on my end usually makes them more excited and eager! Sometimes I'll ask my partner to talk dirty to me, ask them what they want to do to me, and the like and I'll just soak in the words and get lost in the moment while using my wand. I guess you could say that I'm an advocate for the use of toys to help enhance roleplay, fantasies and all other sexual experiences!