01-18-2016, 11:28 AM
All of my experiences have been very enjoyable thus far, but I have to thank my most passionate ones to a certain partner. We definitely have a lot of mental chemistry, and I love that every session leaves me breathless and basking in the afterglow. With every subsequent experience, we learn how to press more of the right buttons (figuratively and literally), so it's been a satisfying journey. It also helps that we tend to joke around a lot before setting the mood and taking our sweet, delectable time with foreplay...
Because of the attraction I have for his personality, it's fun to try out different scenarios with him, sometimes incorporating them in a spontaneous way. Today was one such example: he let me know that he had to tend to something (and turn away from the screen) for a few minutes, so during his absence I prepared a little surprise. Suffice to say, he paid me back generously.
When it comes to the bed interaction itself, I agree that manual and alternating speeds enhance the pleasure. To me, though, it's only because they supplement what's really going on in our conversations. A lot of heated gazes, provocation, and sensual exchanges of dominance... it doesn't feel forced because we focus less on impressing each other and more on having fun together. That and giving each other a little sweet agony.
Because of the attraction I have for his personality, it's fun to try out different scenarios with him, sometimes incorporating them in a spontaneous way. Today was one such example: he let me know that he had to tend to something (and turn away from the screen) for a few minutes, so during his absence I prepared a little surprise. Suffice to say, he paid me back generously.
When it comes to the bed interaction itself, I agree that manual and alternating speeds enhance the pleasure. To me, though, it's only because they supplement what's really going on in our conversations. A lot of heated gazes, provocation, and sensual exchanges of dominance... it doesn't feel forced because we focus less on impressing each other and more on having fun together. That and giving each other a little sweet agony.
"Each night has one sound I know: the moon against the water like your cheek across mine in another life." – Sara Eliza Johnson