01-17-2016, 04:10 PM
Emmie, you are right in there, she dont post any names...but, she specify what she thinks that happen...that, is what i question about in the first place...if it happen to her, ok, i could take her word, but no, not with her, just on a "i heard about it base", and that for me is gossiping, ok, not a character assassination, but gossiping.
If she just post without any specification, not mentioning the part of the raping, i accept, i could reply that i dont agree with her friend, but accept what she did, and i would tell her, that i hope she haven't difused the new like her friend ask, because if she did that, using the character name, thats a character assassination...i explain for those who dont understand correctly...
That stuff happening to me, i go to my 2 or 3 best friends and tell, using the name of the character (just to prevent that the same thing happens to them - i can accept this), but then i go and say, now you go tell your others friends....(what do i want with that? - i want to ruin that character)...now i am one of her friends, i listen to the story, shes my friend, so i accept her point of view, tell alot of bad things about that guy, and so on, and so on (normal talk among friends) and then she ask me to difuse the story to my other friends, MY FRIENDS, not hers!!!, what should i do?
first - A friend, a real friend dont ask that thing, dont put a friend in such dilema!
second - im screw...tottally, what can i say? say no to her? say yes, and dont difuse? say yes and go tell?
And now i do one of two things...i dont difuse the news and keep with my life...or i spread the news... if i dont use the name of the character, im gossiping...if i use the name of the character, what am i doing? (exactly the same thing that guy in the first post, right?)
If she just post without any specification, not mentioning the part of the raping, i accept, i could reply that i dont agree with her friend, but accept what she did, and i would tell her, that i hope she haven't difused the new like her friend ask, because if she did that, using the character name, thats a character assassination...i explain for those who dont understand correctly...
That stuff happening to me, i go to my 2 or 3 best friends and tell, using the name of the character (just to prevent that the same thing happens to them - i can accept this), but then i go and say, now you go tell your others friends....(what do i want with that? - i want to ruin that character)...now i am one of her friends, i listen to the story, shes my friend, so i accept her point of view, tell alot of bad things about that guy, and so on, and so on (normal talk among friends) and then she ask me to difuse the story to my other friends, MY FRIENDS, not hers!!!, what should i do?
first - A friend, a real friend dont ask that thing, dont put a friend in such dilema!
second - im screw...tottally, what can i say? say no to her? say yes, and dont difuse? say yes and go tell?
And now i do one of two things...i dont difuse the news and keep with my life...or i spread the news... if i dont use the name of the character, im gossiping...if i use the name of the character, what am i doing? (exactly the same thing that guy in the first post, right?)