02-28-2017, 11:09 AM
What the hell, let's bump this too!
I'm not as experienced as some here are, but I have learned three important things in any D/s relationship: Communication, communication, communication. Openness and honesty, especially for longer-term plans. With a few notable exceptions, the actions done here are virtual. But that doesn't mean someone can't get hurt. Even as a dominant I've left a few very intense scenes with some significant breakdowns. And that's when all that preparation comes in; discussing what the limits are, any warning signs, and so on. It's not as critical for short-term stuff, but if you don't clearly know what your partner wants, you're going to run into problems long-term.
It's my experience that the best doms aren't the ones who just behave like big brutes. They're the ones who know their subs want them to behave like big brutes.
I'm not as experienced as some here are, but I have learned three important things in any D/s relationship: Communication, communication, communication. Openness and honesty, especially for longer-term plans. With a few notable exceptions, the actions done here are virtual. But that doesn't mean someone can't get hurt. Even as a dominant I've left a few very intense scenes with some significant breakdowns. And that's when all that preparation comes in; discussing what the limits are, any warning signs, and so on. It's not as critical for short-term stuff, but if you don't clearly know what your partner wants, you're going to run into problems long-term.
It's my experience that the best doms aren't the ones who just behave like big brutes. They're the ones who know their subs want them to behave like big brutes.
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