(01-03-2016, 02:37 AM)Emmie Wrote: You are rather aggressive in the way you express yourself, and I feel like there's no middle ground with you. And your view of "people who use female characters" is quite concerning to me. I admit that I have no idea of the hardships "people who use male characters" have to face, I can only imagine, but it's not easy being a "person who use a female character" either.
I get constantly bombarded by cold invites, but I also get quite a lot of actual messages from people both new and on the friend list. So I take one look at how that person approached me (what was said, grammar, their name) and decide fairly quickly if I'm interested or not, and in no way is that me thinking I'm entitled, I just don't have the time to find out more about everyone. I try to reply to everyone though, cause I think it's proper, but I also have full understanding for the ones that decide not to reply. It's just very hectic.
And you come back to calling people obnoxious, which is a very strong word, for using a feature that is meant to be used when in unpleasant company. I can tell you right now that there have been times that I wished I put someone on ignore right away rather than not, cause in the end it just caused me more grief than it was worth. I even think I linked a couple of screenshots of such a situation in this thread. And I don't want people telling me I'm obnoxious for placing someone on ignore to defend myself from a situation I don't wanna find myself in.
I accept that you don't wanna jump the gun on placing people on ignore, I don't do that either. But I don't think you quite understand how much we get approached as "people who use female characters". Cause if you did, you'd have more understanding to this kind of situation.
And finally, you say I'm stating the obvious, which I'm clearly not. If I did, people wouldn't do those things. My character is named Emmie, I don't think that is a giant sign saying "pls insert sexual harass here to get laid", and I still get frighteningly many of those.
You seem to have failed to understand most of what I wrote and your replies seem to be based mostly on what you think you heard, first off you make up some point about how hard I think guys had it when I never said that, I pointed out that by the standards set by people here girls would be just as rude.
That's how you play, normal play involves getting ignored most of the time regardless of effort
Your right it is a strong but I consider it an appropriate reply to someone who blocks someone simply for replying to them. I already stated that I understand blocking someone if they make you feel uncomfortable.
I do understand, I just feel people here have failed to understand both sides when they go on about wanting special treatment and effort when that's unrealistic, I feel like I am one of the few on this board that actually reasons out how both sides play the game, I said myself I don't expect replies yet your first point went on about how hard I thought men have it.
The thread and my first point had nothing to do with that, it was all about blocking people for sending a basic message. Saying you block someone for things you are uncomfortable with is something I never disagreed with because it's stating the obvious.
(01-11-2016, 09:58 AM)Bansai Wrote: Hmm....I thought problems are only faced in real life, who knows even in the internet and in games there are dilemmas as well :/
My opinion it's only really a problem when it gets personnel, I called a character stupid once and needed to clarify that it was RP and that I didn't actually think the person was stupid, even if I thought that I wouldn't have said it.
Difference between calling an avatar in a >sex game< a walking fuck toy and a person irl.