09-24-2016, 01:19 PM
If this concerns what I recall it concerns, a cliche could be appropriate ("better to have loved and lost...") if I was "doing" cliches,which I'm not, obviously.
I've always had mixed feelings about a feeling (yes) such as melancholia. It bares lots of resemblance to regret and regret is one of the most counterproductive and debilitating emotion out there. Yes, it works in not making the same mistake again, but so does memory. Regret is more than that, unnecessary more. But melancholia well, it channels it into something beautiful, though only covers it in brush strokes, deep down, it is still there. Imho...
*snuggles*
I've always had mixed feelings about a feeling (yes) such as melancholia. It bares lots of resemblance to regret and regret is one of the most counterproductive and debilitating emotion out there. Yes, it works in not making the same mistake again, but so does memory. Regret is more than that, unnecessary more. But melancholia well, it channels it into something beautiful, though only covers it in brush strokes, deep down, it is still there. Imho...
*snuggles*