12-30-2015, 04:51 PM
(12-24-2015, 03:01 AM)Thekink Wrote: Ive found recently, that RP partners wont express what they want, with a few exceptions! I dont want to upset those who arent into certain things so make a none expressed RP fairly basic, this doesnt go down well alot of the time. how do we get our partners to express what they want, I will PR almost anything given the right mood and time limit even things i wouldnt dream of doing in RL, but dont know what to play given the "do what you want" attitude, ive tried some of the more creative RP's on some "do what you wanters" and been Blocked for it! Its difficult to win!!! HOW DO YOU GUYS AND GIRLS DO IT!!!????
Sounds like maybe you're just going for the wrong people? If there's no obvious chemistry or if your partner isn't engaged enough to contribute with a scene, idea or a feeling I would just move on. You can always get stubborn and try and carry something that's not going all that well, but I find that to rarely ever be satisfying, even if you put out some stellar performance. Personally once I click with someone enough I just straight out ask them what they enjoy, I like people that know what they want and aren't shy about expressing it.
Leave your shame and your doubts at the door.