male characters have it hard

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(12-26-2015, 03:48 PM)MisterSmiles Wrote: I think you're just approaching this the wrong way. Males have it hard..yeah okay in the sense that we can't as easily garner superficial attention in an online setting especially. But I suggest you look at it as a privilege instead of a hardship. Know what you want, find it and make it your own. You will fail along the way, but it will matter very little in the long run, every victory makes up for any amount of fails, and you'll get quite the high out of it. That's the privilege part.

With that in mind I think the best thing you can do is just ask yourself, every time you find yourself online, what is it I want right now? Is it some specific roleplay scenario? A simple chat? A lady I can seduce? A kinky firecracker? Once you figured that out then act on it. Want a lady, then treat her like a lady. Want roleplay then ask about it. You just want to fuck and talk dirty? Well that's the easiest isn't it, just drop your standards in the next glass.  Just keep your objective in mind, stick to your guns and you will find everything that you want. And most of all accept that you won't win every battle, and you're not required to either.

But all in all the only real advice or "formula" is to accept and acknowledge that you are interacting with another human being. They might be right for you or they might not. The only way to find out is to treat them as you would have them treat you. I know that looking around the place sometimes you could easily think that the default behavior is bitchy and bratty.. it really is not. Don't fall into that trap and add to that kind of behavior. If it gets you down then just take a breath, log out, do something else, come back later or another day with a positive attitude. 

Anyway, cheers and Merry Christmas!

Well said sir, probably the best advice ive seen on this thread so far!!!