12-26-2015, 02:50 PM
I agree with a lot of what has been said about not treating women like objects and avoiding cold invites/requests.
I think there are two very effective ways to garner attention, they usually work on me.
The first is to say hi, but more than hi. Something like "Hello, I like the colors you chose for your avatar, would you care to chat?" Or something like that. Basically send a greeting, then request time. It pays to be polite. Another variation of this is the whole "Be Funny" thing that a lot of women say work on them. Like the time I got "Notice me Senpai" That worked because I laughed really hard.
The other is to explain what you are looking for. Things like "Hello, I enjoy RP, do you?" Or "I was considering a RP scene and was wondering if you would like to hear about it?" This gives the woman the option to accept or deny as they chose, but also lets them know what you are looking for. You can also just ask other questions as well or give them a small paragraph of what you are looking for. I have had this done to me and sometimes it works, but most the time not depending on how much detail is given and whether the scene is something I like.
Different things work on different women, try a few ways out and don't become discouraged. I have met some really nice people by being patient and responding to random "hi" messages every once and a while.
I think there are two very effective ways to garner attention, they usually work on me.
The first is to say hi, but more than hi. Something like "Hello, I like the colors you chose for your avatar, would you care to chat?" Or something like that. Basically send a greeting, then request time. It pays to be polite. Another variation of this is the whole "Be Funny" thing that a lot of women say work on them. Like the time I got "Notice me Senpai" That worked because I laughed really hard.
The other is to explain what you are looking for. Things like "Hello, I enjoy RP, do you?" Or "I was considering a RP scene and was wondering if you would like to hear about it?" This gives the woman the option to accept or deny as they chose, but also lets them know what you are looking for. You can also just ask other questions as well or give them a small paragraph of what you are looking for. I have had this done to me and sometimes it works, but most the time not depending on how much detail is given and whether the scene is something I like.
Different things work on different women, try a few ways out and don't become discouraged. I have met some really nice people by being patient and responding to random "hi" messages every once and a while.