Thank you thekink. You are absolutely right in explaining the frustration. I have been here two months and I think I know what the game is about. Still, I've been brought near to tears with the amount of cold invites and sex requests. It gets overwhelming and dehumanizing. But I've met some wonderful people and I am meeting more every day. That's what keeps bringing me back. If guys stopped chatting and just sent invites I would be gone. The social aspect is a big part of the fun. The chatting, flirting, the meet part is important.
In my experience telling people you are offended by them is usually not accepted very well. In your case, and what I find so cute, is letting me know English is not your first language. I will be much more understanding if you say something that might be considered rude otherwise. That's just me though. We are all different.
In my experience telling people you are offended by them is usually not accepted very well. In your case, and what I find so cute, is letting me know English is not your first language. I will be much more understanding if you say something that might be considered rude otherwise. That's just me though. We are all different.
(12-25-2015, 10:26 PM)V3ol Wrote: I have an idea, Alaw and Lucy, but I can extend this to all girls trying to enjoying this game...
I know, there are a lot of rude people in game, bombarding you with cold friend and sex request... I hope I'm not among them ^^'
When this happens, or there's something bothering you, can you tell them?
I mean, sometimes you meet foreign people, like me, and may happen we can tell something wrong, maybe offensive... but personally I prefer more to be warned than lose a friend.
I like to learn, and I'm really sorry if, even it's only a game, I offend someone.
Thanks for your kindness, really ^^
juicylucy