05-10-2016, 06:31 PM
(05-08-2016, 08:10 PM)Anallee Wrote: *credit John PavlovitzFine words Analee, there is much wisdom in it.
"This is consent to feel fully the contents of your own heart without censorship.
If you are hurting, hurt.
May you feel permission to cry, to grieve, to be not alright.
May you relieve yourself of the burden of pretending everything is fine or faking stability or concealing the damage.
May you feel not a trace of guilt for any twinge of anger or pain that seizes you today, because it is your right to feel.
Above all though, may you find in your very sadness, the proof that your heart though badly broken, still works.
See your grief as the terrible tax on loving people well, and see your unquenched longing for something better as a reminder of the goodness within you that desires a soft place to land."
Embracing what you feel, that's something we forget too much, and it's even worse when what you bury inside shut you from the others, denying them their own right to feel and be felt...
And don't forget to laugh too (maybe this will help : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X0DeIqJm4vM)
Making a girl smile can be much more rewarding than bedding her...