Handling Unwanted Invites

[juicylucy]

(04-27-2016, 10:44 AM)Flexi_Lexi Wrote: One that keeps happening for me (actual wording may differ each time, but the message is the same)

Him: wanna come to my room?
Me: no
Him: why not?
Me: if you have to ask why then you already have your answer
Him: it's a game, we are here for fun
Me: which is why I won't bore myself with somebody like you

Rcently I've been using Monopoly as an analogy; you don't buy up every property you land on, you wait for those that are best for you. Similarly, on here I don't just fuck every single person I meet, instead waiting for those I know I want.

This whole it's a game attitude annoys me more than it should. Damn right it's a game and I play the way I want not the way you want me to, if I don't want to go to your room it doesn't mean I'm not playing the game. 

I love this monopoly analogy, I may have to borrow it if that's ok Lexi.  If someone invites me too quickly I've been telling them I like a little more meet before I fuck, it usually isn't very well received.