(03-31-2016, 04:36 PM)misslanni Wrote: A private VIP room costs what? 1800 cash for 3 hours? I see no reason why those involved in the group can't come up with that amount in a few minutes of glory hole (or using two alt accounts) other than you're being lazy and don't really care whether or not you run into issues. When you really want to avoid all possible modes of confrontation, you do it. Otherwise, you don't really care.
If you want to clench your fists and still get to do all those things in public, then there's no "privacy" to be talked about...a public setting has no privacy. This doesn't go to say that it's ok for these people to intrude on conversations or ignore the obvious "closed group of people interacting" scene and barge themselves into your conversation but if it happens there's not much you can do about it except for the obvious drama and arguing.
The first time I saw a stripper on the pole I checked it out, and I was promptly told to leave because that was a private show. It was fishy to me but, I'm not a fan of arguing with people so I just left. There's no right or wrong way to act in this situation because, there's ways to avoid it and if you don't avoid it, then you're simply seeking out that complicated scenario of "get out" "no, you get out"
Personally, I'm not into seeing people RPing sex in public (soft PDAS and maybe even a little foreplay, sure! but full on sex? pass) mainly because everyone's style is different and they don't all evoke the same image. While I enjoy giving a blow job on RP I don't necessarily like reading about a girl spitting on the guy's cock so it slides down her throat easier.(I saw that happen at the Waterfall once and promptly poofed my pixels away from the zone.)
When public sex is already underway or starts and I'm there, I just move on to another area but this is when I wish ignoring people could be something done without the other party finding out. This way, if I don't want to see their interaction but stay in the area, I can just click ignore and they can go on with their RP and I can go on with whatever I'm doing.
However, I've seen people try this in public only to see them crash and burn and I have a friend that's told me about the sticky situations she's been into for doing it. So really, there's no way to win in public. Whether you're breaking someone's privacy or trying to ignore their actions, people will still get pissy fits.
Exactly and that's what I actually argue against. I'm personally against showing in public outside cuddles and kisses as said before. I'm more of the "I don't wanna bother people" or generally think that people don't need to see what I'm doing to my partner.
I do agree with you but I would like to clearify that money issue. Sure it's not a problem to get money, but in the heat of it, when your partner just want to give you a show, you won't really go grind money for at least 30 minutes or having to go through alts and then come back... I do understand that it is a personal matter and hence won't press the issue more but that's pretty much what happened ^^
As said before too, here it wasn't and "sex" in public but rather just a show with some *Blushes* and stuf involved. I would never go into full sex in public because I know it could gross out people (myself first).
But yeah, in the end, when it happens to me and when I'm prompted to leave, I just do simply because I respect their decisions and don't want to start a fight and break their fun. Maybe I think too much about the human behind the avatar
Thank you for your comment anyways
